Respect goes a long way in all cultures

Ever culture cherishes respect. Dealing with the family court, you get the feeling you are being belittled. That feeling  brings about contempt for the system. America has tried to jail every minority available to the system. The courts take away our self esteem, ambition and what ever dream we long for.
It's as if minority blacks have to have a prison record in order to initiate their demise.
Judges put and remove their pants the same way minority males do. They may have nicer showers but their bathing process is the same. What give them the right to disemiate familes, drive minorities into situations desperate. How when will the suffering of generations of minority children end?